Still lonely and can't get a date with a decent looking woman? The good news is that if you're a somewhat good looking guy and have decent social skills (i.e. can carry a conversation without depending on routines), getting a date with a good looking woman is relatively easy:: First and foremost, avoid the bars downtown and on college campuses. These women get hit on all the time, form huge egos, and really aren't worth the effort. Instead, go to the suburban bars. Why? All of the decent guys are either in relationships or married. What I've noticed when I walk into suburban bars, is that all eyes are immediately on me. Why? Because I am a new face, I'm single, and I'm easy on the eyes. That alone, makes me a target. When you're at some of the higher class bars downtown, you are literally competing with numerous good looking single men. And unless you are at the top of your game and good looking as well, forget it.